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[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]listening with out interrupting[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]taking your partner's feelings into consideration[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]keeping an open mind[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]agreeing to disagree[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]trying to understand your partner's viewpoint[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]loving yourself[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...trust and honesty[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...giving each other space[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...nonviolence[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...direct communication[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...building a person up instead of tearing them down[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...friendship[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is…not pressuring the other person[/FONT]评论
回复: What is respect?We Don't Feel Respected When...We are forced We are ignoredWe are threatenedWe feel imposed upon We feel intruded uponWe feel judged or rejectedWe are not listened toWe are lied toWe are lied aboutWe are not given reasonable explanationsWe are not asked for our opinionsWe are invalidatedWe are interruptedWe are laughed at(especially when we are upset orin pain or some kind of trouble)We are not cared about We are mockedWe are stereotypedWe are underestimatedWe are not taken seriouslyOur feelings are not taken seriouslyOur preferences are not taken seriouslyOur dreams are not taken seriouslyOur ideas are not taken seriouslyOur needs are not acknowledgedand not taken seriouslyOur questions are not taken seriouslyOur questions are not answered or are evadedWe are told that we wouldn't be able toto understand something (Note)We are not asked for our ideas Others make decisions about uswithout our inputOthers do not try to understand usOthers make assumptions about usWe are not asked what we think we needOthers tell us what they think we need. We are not asked how we feelOthers believe they know what is best for usOthers believe they know us better than we know ourselvesOur way of doing things is not acceptedOur privacy is invaded or deniedWe feel betrayedWe feel controlled.
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回复: What is respect?When we are respected we gain the voluntary cooperation of people. We don't have to use as much of our energy and resources trying to get our needs met. When people respect one another there are fewer conflicts. In summary, it is for both evolutionary and practical reasons that respect is important, and also why we simply feel better when we are respected.
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回复: What is respect?觉得我们的文化中RESPECT的成份实在不，不象白人至少表面上能够做到比较尊重人。
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回复: What is respect?我们文化也讲究respect，不过我们也太在乎过去了，喜欢把祖先和历史摆在口边。
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回复: What is respect?我们文化也讲究respect，不过我们也太在乎过去了，喜欢把祖先和历史摆在口边。点击展开...谢谢顶贴。其实我觉的东方跟西方RESPECT的概念还是有差别的。东方重于承认重视，敬；西方跟强调在乎他人感受和理解。
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回复: What is respect?We Don't Feel Respected When...We are forced We are ignoredWe are threatenedWe feel imposed upon We feel intruded uponWe feel judged or rejectedWe are not listened toWe are lied toWe are lied aboutWe are not given reasonable explanationsWe are not asked for our opinionsWe are invalidatedWe are interruptedWe are laughed at(especially when we are upset orin pain or some kind of trouble)We are not cared about We are mockedWe are stereotypedWe are underestimatedWe are not taken seriouslyOur feelings are not taken seriouslyOur preferences are not taken seriouslyOur dreams are not taken seriouslyOur ideas are not taken seriouslyOur needs are not acknowledgedand not taken seriouslyOur questions are not taken seriouslyOur questions are not answered or are evadedWe are told that we wouldn't be able toto understand something (Note)We are not asked for our ideas Others make decisions about uswithout our inputOthers do not try to understand usOthers make assumptions about usWe are not asked what we think we needOthers tell us what they think we need. We are not asked how we feelOthers believe they know what is best for usOthers believe they know us better than we know ourselvesOur way of doing things is not acceptedOur privacy is invaded or deniedWe feel betrayedWe feel controlled. 点击展开...工作中RESPECT 这个词经常被某些人挂在口中, 说你不RESPECT 他/她, 但究竟RESPECT 真正包含的内容未必人人都知道, 但却成为他/她 的一个找渣的理由.很多次, 一个老资历男同事对我很RUDE, 完全没有RESPECT, 我都没去投诉他, 他居然去经理那里投诉我了, 还大言不惭对经理说他RESPECT EVERYBODY, 我忍无可忍之下, 当着经理的面, 说他根本不知道什么叫RESPECT!!! 顿时, 他瞪大眼睛, 闭上嘴巴, 过后装模作样跟我道歉. 从此以后, 他表面上对我都很有礼貌, 至于他的内心我不CARE.
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回复: What is respect?工作中RESPECT 这个词经常被某些人挂在口中, 说你不RESPECT 他/她, 但究竟RESPECT 真正包含的内容未必人人都知道, 但却成为他/她 的一个找渣的理由.很多次, 一个老资历男同事对我很RUDE, 完全没有RESPECT, 我都没去投诉他, 他居然去经理那里投诉我了, 还大言不惭对经理说他RESPECT EVERYBODY, 我忍无可忍之下, 当着经理的面, 说他根本不知道什么叫RESPECT!!! 顿时, 他瞪大眼睛, 闭上嘴巴, 过后装模作样跟我道歉. 从此以后, 他表面上对我都很有礼貌, 至于他的内心我不CARE.点击展开...respect is based on love. we don't like all, but we can love all, even those who treat us bad.Generally, people just try to be polite, which is different from respect.
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回复: What is respect?[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]listening with out interrupting[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]taking your partner's feelings into consideration[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]keeping an open mind[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]agreeing to disagree[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]trying to understand your partner's viewpoint[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]loving yourself[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...trust and honesty[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...giving each other space[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...nonviolence[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...direct communication[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...building a person up instead of tearing them down[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is...friendship[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][/FONT] [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Respect is…not pressuring the other person[/FONT] We Don't Feel Respected When...We are forced We are ignoredWe are threatenedWe feel imposed upon We feel intruded uponWe feel judged or rejectedWe are not listened toWe are lied toWe are lied aboutWe are not given reasonable explanationsWe are not asked for our opinionsWe are invalidatedWe are interruptedWe are laughed at(especially when we are upset orin pain or some kind of trouble)We are not cared about We are mockedWe are stereotypedWe are underestimatedWe are not taken seriouslyOur feelings are not taken seriouslyOur preferences are not taken seriouslyOur dreams are not taken seriouslyOur ideas are not taken seriouslyOur needs are not acknowledgedand not taken seriouslyOur questions are not taken seriouslyOur questions are not answered or are evadedWe are told that we wouldn't be able toto understand something (Note)We are not asked for our ideas Others make decisions about uswithout our inputOthers do not try to understand usOthers make assumptions about usWe are not asked what we think we needOthers tell us what they think we need. We are not asked how we feelOthers believe they know what is best for usOthers believe they know us better than we know ourselvesOur way of doing things is not acceptedOur privacy is invaded or deniedWe feel betrayedWe feel controlled. 点击展开...评论
请为伊能静投上一票：http://www.ttpaihang.com/vote/rank.php?voteid=43&sortby=rd回复: What is respect?seems noboby cares about respect. that is the nature of chinese.
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回复: What is respect?We are invalidated这个为什么加重，是什么意思？
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===================Fight, Love, Make Mistake谢谢顶贴。其实我觉的东方跟西方RESPECT的概念还是有差别的。东方重于承认重视，敬；西方跟强调在乎他人感受和理解。点击展开...东方文化是以家庭为主导的，所谓常说的，任何人都可能会欺骗你，但你家人不会欺骗你。呵呵，既然这样biased，那就是遵从了，而respect前提更多的是人与人之间的平等关系，这种东西在亲情主导的文化中确实不是太重要了。要知道，西人的一个互相respect的朋友，有时帮的比他自己家人帮的还要多。其实respect这东西很虚无缥缈，口头上或者理论上说的容易，实践里很难真正完全做到。
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回复: What is respect?东方文化是以家庭为主导的，所谓常说的，任何人都可能会欺骗你，但你家人不会欺骗你。呵呵，既然这样biased，那就是遵从了，而respect前提更多的是人与人之间的平等关系，这种东西在亲情主导的文化中确实不是太重要了。要知道，西人的一个互相respect的朋友，有时帮的比他自己家人帮的还要多。其实respect这东西很虚无缥缈，口头上或者理论上说的容易，实践里很难真正完全做到。点击展开...that is why i say respect is based on love. otherwise it is "polite" not "respect"
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回复: What is respect?that is why i say respect is based on love. otherwise it is "polite" not "respect"点击展开...这个love。。。存在于朋友之间么？异性朋友？同性朋友？
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回复: What is respect?这个love。。。存在于朋友之间么？异性朋友？同性朋友？点击展开...我想比这个意义还广得多。应该是那种宽容的LOVE，甚至包括跟自己立场不同的对手和敌人。看到一个文章，意思是说你可以不LIKE 一个人，但LOVE这个人。
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回复: What is respect?我想比这个意义还广得多。应该是那种宽容的LOVE，甚至包括跟自己立场不同的对手和敌人。看到一个文章，意思是说你可以不LIKE 一个人，但LOVE这个人。点击展开...这叫faith，只适用于某些人，不叫love。大多数人不会有这种想法。
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回复: What is respect?这叫faith，只适用于某些人，不叫love。大多数人不会有这种想法。点击展开...也对，某些宗教上不仅是FAITH，还要LOVE，但也就是说说的，没见过，只见过他们爱得要将不同意见的杀掉。
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回复: What is respect?也对，某些宗教上不仅是FAITH，还要LOVE，但也就是说说的，没见过，只见过他们爱得要将不同意见的杀掉。点击展开...估计你是处女座的人，有精神洁癖。呵呵。
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回复: What is respect?估计你是处女座的人，有精神洁癖。呵呵。点击展开...不是这个座的，呵呵。精神上处于混沌状态。
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