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回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育做妇产科医生的亲戚告诉我,中国学校中学生更猛,打胎不当回事了。
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回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育做妇产科医生的亲戚告诉我,中国学校中学生更猛,打胎不当回事了。点击展开...真的假的???那还是国外的教育好?
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回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育不是早恋, 而是早性
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既来之则安之 超赞 赏 小 小雷音Guest 0$(VIP ) 2011-06-12#6 回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育灰常扯淡的一篇文章
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回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育所知道的,加拿大学生一般会自觉使用避孕套。
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家里恶狗的成长日记和Product Review错。 只要负责人的上床就行。十几二十岁不上床,难道等30岁身体开始走样,到处开始松垮了才开始?? 早恋是中国教育体制下的破概念。让人觉得最自然的生理和心理反应是肮脏的。再说了,什么时候谈恋爱算早?成人之前?上大学之前?身体发育之前?点击展开...十几岁能付什么责任了?戴套就是负责啦?二十岁以后还行,十几岁对女孩子的身体很伤的,因为女生比男生性成熟的晚,中医上说伤及筋脉,会影响子宫健康发育的,你也许不信中医,但西医也不会建议十几岁的人做爱吧。 还有哦,30岁皮肤还可以的,就是眼角有些细纹而已(我见过不少保养的很好的),不至于什么下垂的,你过度担忧啦。不过很明显你是享乐一族。
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回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育自由恋爱!自由做爱!
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走过岁月我才发觉世界多不完美,成功或失败都有一些错觉。。做妇产科医生的亲戚告诉我,中国学校中学生更猛,打胎不当回事了。点击展开... 呵呵,看了只是觉得可笑,你家亲戚在哪个城市?你家亲戚赶快离开这个城市吧,我在加拿大,北京,上海都住过很长时间,别的不说,这个方面,中国的这两个大城市还是不错的,还是让家长放心的,个别孩子的事例不能构成或代表"中国学校".是不是在有些人眼中,中国什么都是最烂的才高兴,证明自己加拿大来对了?什么心态?
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回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育错。 只要负责人的上床就行。十几二十岁不上床,难道等30岁身体开始走样,到处开始松垮了才开始?? 早恋是中国教育体制下的破概念。让人觉得最自然的生理和心理反应是肮脏的。再说了,什么时候谈恋爱算早?成人之前?上大学之前?身体发育之前?点击展开... 以前看过你很多帖子,都觉的你成熟,稳重,但这个回帖还是让我大吃一惊,不相信是你说的,实感失望.你还太小,等你做妈妈了,有女儿了,再评价这个比较好.另,谁告诉你中国人认为这种事情肮脏?那是以前老一辈人的思想了,现在的人都知道性生活在婚姻中的重要地位,但一个孩子,特别是女孩子,无论在生理上还是在心理上都会更容易受到伤害,女孩子容易在上床后一心一意的爱上对方,如果男孩只是为了尝试性经验,女孩子必将在感情上受到伤害,如果怀孕,前途就没了,避孕套只能避免85%的受孕,意外受孕对女孩子的伤害特别大,打掉时,如果子宫受损,可能一生都不容易再怀上,如果生下来,为了一个根本就不爱自己的人前途尽毁!哪个当妈妈的会鼓励自己的10几岁女儿去和别人做这个,然后告诉她,注意避孕就行了?你会吗?
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回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育以前看过你很多帖子,都觉的你成熟,稳重,但这个回帖还是让我大吃一惊,不相信是你说的,实感失望.你还太小,等你做妈妈了,有女儿了,再评价这个比较好.另,谁告诉你中国人认为这种事情肮脏?那是以前老一辈人的思想了,现在的人都知道性生活在婚姻中的重要地位,但一个孩子,特别是女孩子,无论在生理上还是在心理上都会更容易受到伤害,女孩子容易在上床后一心一意的爱上对方,如果男孩只是为了尝试性经验,女孩子必将在感情上受到伤害,如果怀孕,前途就没了,避孕套只能避免85%的受孕,意外受孕对女孩子的伤害特别大,打掉时,如果子宫受损,可能一生都不容易再怀上,如果生下来,为了一个根本就不爱自己的人前途尽毁!哪个当妈妈的会鼓励自己的10几岁女儿去和别人做这个,然后告诉她,注意避孕就行了?你会吗?点击展开...I am at work, so I apologize for the English repost.I volunteered at one of the best high school in the province of Hubei, and then with a government agencies' youth sexual education outreach program at Green Apple House (translate to Chinese to google) with Zhong Guo Ren Kou Xuan Jiao Zhong Xin. During my time there, I have seen and heard about teachers who REFUSE to talk during health class. And it's not even about sex, it's about puberty and physical development. They are embarrased to tell their students about it, worried about the reaction, so they avoid the topic. I have given numerous speeches to girls who work at restaurants in the city and left their families and schools early in their life. These girls were 20+ when I spoke to them. They GIGGLED and blushed heavily when I talked about pads and tampons. FORGET sex. That's not a topic I could even begin to touch because they've been taught to be ashamed of it.Though I will agree with you, that students in Beijing and likely other big cities are much more open about it. But their education is no where near as comprehensive as the one I received in Canada.On the topic of sex and relationships. I agree you should not be having sex when you're 14, but what about when you're 18? I have been dating the same guy since I was 17, and my mother ENCOURAGED me to try out that aspect of our relationship. The reasoning is exactly as you said, sex is a very important part of marriage or any serious relationship. If we are not sexually compatible, then we should be heavily invest into a relationship that will end in frustration and failure for both parties.In terms of contraception and the emotional and physical risks to having sex:I am not advocating EVERY teenager to go have sex. But I am saying the attitude preached in the original post is wrong. If I can UNDERSTAND the risks and responsibilities, and take measures to protect myself, then sex when I am 17-19 IS absolutely fine. Some girls cannot take the responsibility and don't understand it, and they SHOULD NOT be having sex.We are taught in school the methods of contraception. And with a method like condom + birth control pill, the effective rate is over 99%. I guess finally, it's a difference in our attitude towards sex. I treat it as a way to enjoy my body and enjoy the person I have a serious relationship with. I know many Chinese people treat it differently and view it in a more holy light. Which is fine. I am sorry if my post dissapointed you or made you view me differently, but this is how I feel.I can repost this in Chinese when I get home.
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家里恶狗的成长日记和Product Review十几岁能付什么责任了?戴套就是负责啦?二十岁以后还行,十几岁对女孩子的身体很伤的,因为女生比男生性成熟的晚,中医上说伤及筋脉,会影响子宫健康发育的,你也许不信中医,但西医也不会建议十几岁的人做爱吧。 还有哦,30岁皮肤还可以的,就是眼角有些细纹而已(我见过不少保养的很好的),不至于什么下垂的,你过度担忧啦。不过很明显你是享乐一族。点击展开...No. Our sexual prime is before we are 20. I am talking about the 17-20 age range, which many parents still consider unacceptible.Condom is not responsibility. But understanding what to do BEFORE you have sex, like take a pill, and understanding what to do IF you get pregnant and be prepared to take the steps, that's responsibility. I am not saying enjoy enjoy enjoy. I am saying it is my right to enjoy my body, GIVEN that I understand and accept the consequences and take steps to mitigate it.
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家里恶狗的成长日记和Product Review 超赞 赏 小 小雷音Guest 0$(VIP ) 2011-07-09#16 回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育总比连性交都不会的教育来得好吧。
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回复: [评论]孩子大了早恋家长不能管:加拿大学校完全是性交教育很多妈妈还很单纯啊,看来离开天朝太久。现在北京上海这些地方一到假期,排着队的中学生打胎,而且有些人是每个假期都来的熟面孔,很多医生都忍不住劝这些90后小姑娘要注意,反而招来一顿抢白.... 礼崩乐坏......否则怎么越来越多的人想背井离乡离开生于斯长于斯的故土?
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